Ah yes, I’ve watched that one several times. The last part really hits you straight in the feels.
One thing that surprised me about transitioning is how easy it is to just be myself now. Growing up I of course felt that I was in some way “failing” to live up to some kind of masculine ideal, but at the same time was totally repulsed by it. Women were a kind of mysterious unknown, and yet I was painfully jealous of them. And now, all that cognitive dissonance has vanished. Hanging out with women who now feel safe opening up to me, I don’t need to constantly monitor myself to make sure I’m “performing” properly. It was such a shock (but obvious in hindsight) to realize these people are just like me. Even more so in sapphic spaces :3
I assume you’re talking about removing it? And by discreet you mean you’d rather deal with it by yourself for now?
First step would of course be shaving or waxing, the latter being more effective. Or hair removal cream for something in-between.
You can also buy IPL hair removal devices for use at home, although laser would be a more efficient option.
Or just get on HRT and it will slow down and (potentially) thin out a bit :3